A 12-month container to renegotiate your marriage - so you love and actually like your partner (cuz no one taught us this! )
You crushed it with your body. You figured out your mind. Now what about your marriage?age?
You've done THE WORK in YMX. You've transformed your weight and SO many parts of your life. You're basically unrecognizable from your past self.
But… your marriage isn’t seeing the same oomph! Like maybe your less of that bestie vibe you see from couples on IG, and more of that roommates who share the same Netflix password vibe.
Maybe your marriage could ALSO use a little marvelous marriage makeover???
Facts:
You were never taught how to be married. School taught algebra, not repair in five.
We’ve all been there… careers, kids, money, in-laws, laundry… real life + a few years under the belt starts to sneak into the spaces where intimacy, connection, and fun used to live.
The Post Nup is where badass Yum Mums come to renegotiate the unspoken rules, learn the tools no one gave us, and build a marriage that feels like teammates, besties, and lovers… Yes, even if he’s not “doing the work” (yet).
What you told us:
(thank you for being so honest)
Most of you said your marriage is a top 2025 priority
"We're great roommates… but not partners per se."
"I do everything unless I ask directly. It's exhausting."
"The mental load is mine, even when he helps."
"I don't feel emotionally safe when we're having hard conversations."
"I love how we are on vacation. We are more connected and considerate of each other."
"I want our relationship to feel deeper and more connected."
"I miss talking about more than logistics."
"We've grown individually, but not together."
"I want to feel like we're in this together, not like I'm the manager of our life."
If you nodded "yes," you're exactly who we designed this for.
So The Post Nup is:
A 12-month marriage transformation for women who want to renegotiate their marriage
Think of it like this: You signed an invisible contract when you got married. Unspoken agreements about who does what, who carries what, who's responsible for what.
That contract? It's expired. Time for a renegotiation.
And here's the beautiful part - when YOU change how you show up, everything shifts. It's like being the thermostat instead of the thermometer in your own home.
How it works:
The Pre-Game — (October - December 2025):
Private Community in Slack
Pleasure Pack Mailed Gifties
Ask-a-Coach Voxer Support (Tue/Thu)
Date-Night-Done-For-You Bonus - Course Modules, Date Templates, and Convo Starters
Phase 1 — Core (months 1-6):
Weekly Live Calls (Mondays 11am–12pm MT)
Week A: Teaching + tools you can use that night
Week B: Coaching + implementation
Private Community in Slack
Ask-a-Coach Voxer Support (Tue/Thu)
Worksheets + Tracker: PDF with prompts and tracking tools
Challenges + Pop-Ups
Phase 2 — Integration (months 7-12):
Monthly live Integration Labs
Ongoing community accountability in Slack
Challenges + Pop-Ups to keep you implementing
Is this you?
“We’re roommates. I want to be teammates again.”
“Different speeds (extrovert/introvert, ADHD/linear) → we talk past each other.”
“He won’t commit to set meetings, but he’ll do quick prompts or a private video.”
“Parenting boundaries: I’m relaxed, he’s strict → power struggles.”
“Desire mismatch: he wants more; I want connection first.”
“Decision fatigue—I’m the ‘admin for life.’ Please take some ownership.”
“Empty nest/retirement is coming—how do we not drive each other nuts?”
“We’re good. I want more fun, laughter, lightness, and actual dates (no phones).”
If you nodded “yes,” you’re exactly who we designed this for.
The promise…
Again…. your words.
We are just going to show you how to create them. ;)
“Like him again. Not just love him on paper.”
“No manual. Freedom from my own anger.”
“Talk that lands - especially when we’re stressed.”
“Fun first: phone-free date days.”
“Equal(ish) load so I’m not the default admin.”
“Safety → play → desire (pressure off, sizzle up).”
What You'll Learn in The Post Nup
The 12 Core Teachings:
✅ Your Personal Post-Nup - Walk away with a contract for marriage that meets where you are NOW and what you want for the future.
✅ The Power of One - How to set the tone in your marriage and take back control
✅ The Marriage Reset Mindset - Applying thought work to drop expectations and take emotional responsibility
✅ Self-Soothing Mastery - Regulating your nervous system so you don't react from triggers
✅ Dropping the Manual - Going DEEP on releasing the unconscious rules about how he "should" behave
✅ Communication That Lands - Speaking so he can actually hear you (even when he's defensive)
✅ Repair Attempts - How to reconnect after conflict, even if he won't participate
✅ Becoming the Thermostat - Creating the emotional climate you want in your home
✅ Creating Safety Through Regulation - Building trust through your own emotional stability
✅ Retiring as Admin of Life - Stopping the default to managing everything yourself
✅ Building Your Marriage Protocol - Daily and weekly practices that create lasting change
✅ Maintaining Your Changes - How to sustain transformation long-term
✅ Advanced Power of One Strategies - What to do when he resists your changes
Plus 5 bonus modules you can watch anytime covering emergency techniques, communication scripts, mental load solutions, and more.
THE INVESTMENT
$2,500
1 Payment (Save $1000!)
12 months: deep-dive + integration
Live calls + replays
Women-only community
Ask-a-Coach
Marriage Menu™ tools + Materials
The marriage you want
The Post-Nup “Pre-Game” Holiday Warmup
$497/month
6 Monthly Payments (save $482)
12 months: deep-dive + integration
Live calls + replays
Women-only community
Ask-a-Coach
Marriage Menu™ tools + Materials
The marriage you want
The Post-Nup “Pre-Game” Holiday Warmup
$297/month
12 Monthly Payments
12 months: deep-dive + integration
Live calls + replays
Women-only community
Ask-a-Coach
Marriage Menu™ tools + Materials
The marriage you want
The Post-Nup “Pre-Game” Holiday Warmup
What if you do nothing?
Picture this: It's December 31st, 2026...
You're still having the same conversations about who's picking up the kids.
You're still carrying the mental load while feeling like "the manager of your life."
You're still great roommates, but not partners. Not life-mates. Not visioning and go-getting together.
You're still missing talking about more than logistics. You’re missing out on laughing so hard your sides hurt. Or crying together when things get hard.
You've grown even more individually, but you're still not growing together.
How does that feel?
Now imagine this instead:
You've learned how to create the connection you crave.
You feel like teammates again.
Your marriage feels like COMING HOME. like a big breathy, yummy sigh of relief.
You remember why you fell in love in the first place.
Which future do you want?
WHAT WOMEN ARE SAYING
(about the things we’ll be teaching you)
"I learned to take control of my own inner peace, love, empathy, joy, and connection and I showed up differently. I can literally SEE how he is responding to me differently, even though he didn't look at any of what I was doing. He literally IS changing, just because of the way I decided to change."
"My husband has said time and time again that something is very different about me and he loves it. He's acting different, too. To me, for sure but also towards the kids. I feel like MY spark is back and that's really lighting things up between the two of us. Thank you!"
“We did therapy and that seemed to explain a lot of the why’s. Doing this work helped me bring the “what now” to the table. It helped us actually move forward.”
“I like him again. Weird to say but it feels kinda like a miracle. Ha!”
Ready to rewrite the rules?
If you’re craving peace, partnership, and that “OMG I like you” feeling again… this is your room.
Doors close Monday, October 13th at 11am MST.
We start Monday, October 13th with a little WARM UP to 2026 - Your New Marriage Era:
The Post-Nup “Pre-Game”
October 13th - January 12th
What’s included in the Pre-Game over the holidays:
Voxer marriage coaching days, Tuesday + Thursdays (Ask-a-Coach open on Voxer 24/7, we will respond on these days)
Slack access to the Private Post-Nup community open now but starting Oct 13 - where you can bring and chat on all marriage things together before official start in January
The Done for You Date Night Bonus -
- 7 science-backed video modules that reveal why most date nights fail or fall flat (and how to make yours a SUCCESS that creates depth and connection, and also helps you get hubs on board if needed)
- Monthly "Date Night Drops" with 4 ready-to-execute high-value date ideas each month (PS. high-value doesn't = high-price, high-stress, high-mental load to make it happen. We will show you!)
- Conversation starters that are meaningful ---> This is all so you can UP the fun in a chill, NOT overwhelming way through the holidays.
We start weekly calls on January 12th every Monday at 11am-12pm MT.
(Spots are limited to keep it intimate)
If you're tired of settling for "fine"...
If you're ready to create a marriage that matches the woman you've become...
If you want to feel proud of how you show up as a wife…
This is your moment.
FAQ
Do I need my husband to participate?
No. Designed solo-first. You lead with simple protocols; he has optional, private micro-videos and prompts.
We don’t fight - we just don’t talk. Will this help?
Yes, this will help AND we will help you start talking again. We are focused on low-stakes, frequent connection so silence can’t snowball.
I’m busy. How much time is this?
~ 60 minutes weekly live, plus 10–15 minutes/day of micro-homework or protocol practice. Plus a few fun
What if I miss a call?
Replays posted in 24 hours in Kajabi.
Will there be husband related materials?
No calls where husbands are required. Buuuut there WILL be optional partner inclusion activities - again! Not required!