A 12-month container to renegotiate your marriage—so you love and actually like your partner (no one taught us this)
Facts:
You were never taught how to be married. School taught algebra, not repair in five. Careers, kids, money, in-laws, laundry—real life sneaks into the spaces where intimacy used to live.
The Post Nup is where high-achieving wives come to renegotiate the unspoken rules, learn the tools no one gave us, and build a marriage that feels like teammates, besties, and lovers—even if he’s not “doing the work” (yet).
What you told us (thank you for being so honest):
Most of you said your marriage is a top 2025 priority
Partners range from on board to meh/reluctant to “please make it short + private.”
How you want to work: solo-first or hybrid, schedule-light, short lessons you can do together in private, card-deck prompts, fun phone-free dates, women-only coaching room (no sharing “marriage junk” with other couples).
Biggest issues on the table: communication under stress, parenting boundaries, time alone, decision fatigue/mental load, desire mismatch, money styles (spender vs saver), business bleeding into marriage, aging/empty-nest transitions, ADHD/different processing speeds.
Hard no’s: therapy-ish heaviness, vent loops, anti-feminist vibes, forcing husbands into groups.
So The Post Nup is:
Solo-first + partner-welcoming, women-only coaching room, micro-lessons you can watch privately together, card-deck prompts, no forced husband calls, zero vent-circles - tools only.
The Marriage Protocol Platter™
Two-Minute 2×2 (app-friendly): What I appreciated / What I need → fixes “no time/different speeds.”
6-Second Kiss (daily, no motive) → “I want a kiss without agenda.”
Weekly State-of-Us (15–30 min, car-friendly): logistics → feelings → fun plan → intimacy idea.
Repair in Five (scripted) → for “we avoid, then it feels worse.”
Decision Ownership Split (template) → retire “admin for life.”
Money Styles Bridge (spender/saver worksheet) → shared plan, fewer digs.
Parenting Boundaries Lab → consistent follow-through without constant fights.
Desire Gap Bridge → safety micro-wins + no-pressure intimacy ladder.
Business-to-Us Boundaries → when you work together (or over-talk).
Vacation-at-Home Menu → if “we’re best on vacation,” bring it home weekly.
The curriculum
Your Post Nup: renegotiating the invisible contract (you’re gonna leave with a Post Nup - designed from your Future Self)
Nervous System First
Clean Communication under pressure (scripts that land)
Resentment Detox: boundaries without backlash
Repair + Forgive: moving on, for real
Parenting as a Team: boundaries, consistency, fewer power struggles
Money, Ops, Decisions: decision ownership + load balancing
Desire Gap Bridge: safety → play → intimacy ladders
Business → Marriage Boundaries (for co-owners and over-talkers
Empty-Nest/Retirement Lab: roles, rhythms, fun
Vacation-at-Home: date menus + no-phone rituals
Values → Vision → Rituals: quarterly tune-ups + future us
Is this you?
“We’re roommates. I want to be teammates again.”
“Different speeds (extrovert/introvert, ADHD/linear) → we talk past each other.”
“He won’t commit to set meetings, but he’ll do quick prompts or a private video.”
“Parenting boundaries: I’m relaxed, he’s strict → power struggles.”
“Desire mismatch: he wants more; I want connection first.”
“Decision fatigue—I’m the ‘admin for life.’ Please take some ownership.”
“Empty nest/retirement is coming—how do we not drive each other nuts?”
“We’re good. I want more fun, laughter, lightness, and actual dates (no phones).”
If you nodded “yes,” you’re exactly who we designed this for.
The promise…
“Like him again. Not just love him on paper.”
“No manual. Freedom from my own anger.”
“Talk that lands—especially when we’re stressed.”
“Fun first: phone-free date days (mini golf, art, hikes, pickleball).”
“Equal(ish) load so I’m not the default admin.”
“Safety → play → desire (pressure off, sizzle up).”
THE INVESTMENT
$2,500
1 Payment
12 months: deep-dive + integration
Live calls + replays
Women-only community
Ask-a-Coach
Protocol Platter™ tools + 50-page tracker
The marriage you want
$497/month
6 Monthly Payments
12 months: deep-dive + integration
Live calls + replays
Women-only community
Ask-a-Coach
Protocol Platter™ tools + 50-page tracker
The marriage you want
$297/month
12 Monthly Payments
12 months: deep-dive + integration
Live calls + replays
Women-only community
Ask-a-Coach
Protocol Platter™ tools + 50-page tracker
The marriage you want
How it works (12 months)
Phase 1 — Core (months 1-6):
Weekly Live Calls (Mon 12–1pm MT):
Week A: Teaching + tools you can use that night
Week B: Coaching + implementation
Community: Women-only
Ask-a-Coach voxer support (Tue/Thu)
Protocol check-ins, wins, shares
Worksheets + Tracker: 50-page PDF with prompts, scripts, and your Protocol Tracker
Challenges + Pop-Ups:
Phase 2 — Integration (months 7-12):
Monthly live Integration Labs
Ongoing Protocol accountability
Ready to rewrite the rules—together?
If you’re craving peace, partnership, and that “OMG I like you” feeling again… this is your room.
FAQ
Do I need my husband to participate?
No. Designed solo-first. You lead with simple protocols; he has optional, private micro-videos and prompts.
We don’t fight—we just don’t talk. Will this help?
Yes. The platter builds low-stakes, frequent connection so silence can’t snowball.
What if ADHD/different processing speeds are in play?
We script timing, set lengths, and “pause-and-park” so talks don’t derail.
I’m busy. How much time is this?
~60 minutes weekly live, plus 10–15 minutes/day of micro-homework or protocol practice.
What if I miss a call?
Replays posted same day in Kajabi with timestamps + notes.
Will there be husband calls?
No required husband calls. Optional male-led Q&A (recorded) happens 1–2 times max.